My husband said nothing and All I need today is a little bit of Iowa and a whole lot of jesus shirt. So I sat there wondering what I should do. Then the guy says that he considers me hot. He had said something like this to me before at church and I had waved it off. I told him thanks but that I really didn’t feel comfortable with him telling me that. Especially in front of my husband. This is when things started to heat up. Both the single girl and the guy started asking what was wrong with me for not wanting to accept a compliment. I should be proud to be seen as desirable by people other than my husband.
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I tried to explain that All I need today is a little bit of Iowa and a whole lot of jesus shirt and that I felt uncomfortable that a married guy was commenting on my desirability first in front of his wife and then in front of my husband. And it wasn’t just an innocuous “Hey, you’re pretty”. He was telling me he considered me someone he’d bed. He made some dismissive gesture and proudly exclaimed his wife was secure enough that this wouldn’t bother her. It’s something he does all the time. He felt it was his duty to make other women beside his wife feel desirable. I said ok, but I still didn’t feel comfortable with it and that I had no obligation to accept it or be told how to feel.